Does the male G-spot actually exist or is it a figment of someone’s imagination? And if it does, and I’d like to get it stimulated, does that mean I’m gay? If there was a tree planted for every time a man wondered about these two things, we’d be living in the Amazon rainforest no less!
Let’s address both these questions: yes, the male g-spot, better known as the prostate, definitely exists, and no, wanting it to be stimulated doesn’t make you gay but a man who wants to experience pleasure instead. The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located below your bladder, right above the penis, and in front of the rectum. While its anatomical purpose is to generate prostate fluid which forms a part of your semen, it’s also known to have as many nerve endings as the clitoris, which is why it’s just as incredible a source of pleasure for a man as the latter is for women.
Most heterosexual men, however, don’t know much about it because the notion is that only homosexual men engage in prostate stimulation via anal penetration. The fact is that any man irrespective of their orientation can and should experience prostate stimulation – neither is anal sex the only way to go about it nor is it an exclusive part of gay sex.
How can straight men get their g-spot aka their prostate stimulated? You could either do it yourself with your fingers or ask your partner for some assistance, by inserting (after applying some lube) a finger or sex toy about two inches into your rectum, directing it towards your belly button and not the back. There’s also the option of using a prostate massager. Did you know that prostate massagers are fast gaining popularity amongst men? As per a 2017 study, the sale of these massagers shot up by about 56%, particularly in the age group of men above 45.
But before you go about getting your prostate stimulated, here are a few things to keep in mind:
Here are 7 simple ways:
1. Go slow at first because the area tends to be rather tight
2. Use enough and more lubrication because unlike the vagina and clitoral area, there’s no natural lubrication
3. If you’re worried about unwanted fecal matter, give yourself a thorough cleanse beforehand
4. Make sure your fingers and/or your partner’s are clean with nails trimmed to avoid getting any cut
5. It’s a good idea to start with the perineum region first, to warm up the area, before going in
6. Only try this when you’re absolutely turned on
7. Most importantly, relax, unclench your butt and breathe properly through the entire act
