Are you ruining your friends’ lives?
Some people can drain your energy – and not because you’re having a lot of fun together.
These people are nicknamed “energy vampires” drain your emotional energyEither intentionally or not.
In the show “What We Do in the Shadows”, the “energy vampire” character Colin Robinson Sucks up the lives of people around youBores them with small talk and unnecessary matters of feeding and feeding.
but there are all kinds of terrible peopleAlla Svirinskaya, an energy healer to the stars and author of the best-selling book “energy law, Revealed by Daily Mail.
chatterbox
Have you ever left a conversation feeling like you did most of the talking? Maybe it’s pushing your friends away.
Ella says: “The other person often feels trapped, not knowing how to interrupt your monologue. They eventually get tired of your constant demands for attention.
“It’s important to connect with people rather than just talk down to them,” he advised.
manipulative
It seems that some people only reach out when they need something, whether it’s an invitation or some advice.
Alla told the Daily Mail, “As soon as someone realizes that they are being used for their connections and contacts and that their generosity has been abused, it can result in a long-term lack of trust in new people. Can.”
“A healthy friendship should benefit both parties.”
negative nelly
Do you see the glass as half empty? Well, refilling your cup and reframing your mindset takes a lot out of your friends.
“Behaving this way can make the other person doubt themselves and their positive outlook. They have to ‘shrink’ their light to accommodate your shadow. You need to take things less personally, accept that people make mistakes and stop twisting stories to support your idea that everything is negative and hopeless. It’s not like that!” He said.
gossip
Most people love to socialize with their best friends and have a little laugh. But when you’re always gossiping about others and judging everyone, it can get tiring.
“People often do this to boost their low self-esteem. They lift themselves up by putting others down. Eventually, friends will stop trusting you and your friendship will become shallow and devoid of any intimate connection,” Alla said.
showboat
It’s normal to talk about your accomplishments with your friends, but some people have a talent for turning every conversation into a brag about themselves.
Alla explained, “Even if a friend starts a conversation about their success or glory, this person will find a way to make it sound like it’s incredible.”
“Your friends begin to feel like mere mirrors that you use to admire your reflection. You make people feel lonely in your presence because of your self-absorption and lack of empathy.
eternal sufferer and martyr
Is the world against you? Well, if you always behave like a victim or a martyr your friends may soon do the same.
“These people often seek advice from friends and lose interest if the friend does not support their victim narrative,” Alla said.
“When you turn people into garbage cans to vent your poisonous gas, they feel exhausted, while martyrs suffocate others with their projected guilt.”
