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a young bride-to-be is anxious and irritable It was decided along with her mother as to who would escort the young woman down the aisle.
In the mother’s mind this has become an inalienable right of her new lover.
24 year old Posted on Reddit Her biological father tragically passed away when she was only 10 years old and her mother’s new boyfriend, who is 50, has been in the news for almost six years.
She said, “Although he always treated me well, I never saw him as a father. He came into my life when I was already an adult, and we are friendly but not particularly close. Are.”
“I told my mom I planned to walk down the aisle by myself to honor my independence and my father’s memory.”
However, the 48-year-old mom didn’t take things so well.
She hits back at her daughter, insisting that not only has the boyfriend “earned” this position, but that her father’s memory will be “erased” if he is not stepped down.
But the latter “couldn’t be further from the truth,” the bride said.
“Now her boyfriend is avoiding me, and my mom keeps calling me selfish and saying I’m ruining the marriage before it’s even started.”
And, even though other family members strongly suggest that the daughter confess “to keep the peace”, she is still willing to fight the good fight.
“It’s my marriage, and I feel the final decision should be mine.”
Online, many commentators agreed with that sentiment.
“It should be perfect for you and your partner’s needs and desires. This is not a matter of dispute,” replied one. “Your mother is manipulative and insulting.”
“He is mother’s lover. There is no ‘fatherly’ relationship there,” said another.
A third person offered a worrying prospect with the wedding next summer still a few months away.
“It’s weird that she wants her boyfriend at the wedding because what if they break up?” He has written.
