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Cheaters never succeed. And that saying is especially true when Professional “Honey Trapper” Madeline Smith is the bait.
But when Vixen isn’t busy testing the loyalty of men caught at the receiving end of their questionable partners, she’s sharing hints and tips on how to spot the signs that a guy is up to no good.
“Ladies, don’t get this wrong,” Los Angeles-based Smith wrote. In the caption of a trending TikTok“There’s nothing wrong with taking concrete steps to protect your heart.”
And, unfortunately, in today’s digital age, opportunities to betray someone important are only a few clicks away.
But Smith, a siren who sends flirty messages to out-of-market men for a living, assures that curious wives and girlfriends don’t need to know computers to finger their guys for being unfaithful.
Instead, Naughty Know It All suggests women keep their eyes peeled for any of the following top eight red flags.
he hides his phone
“When you go out to dinner, or watch TV on the couch, does your man leave his phone face up or face down?” Smith asked in a column for daily mail“It may seem minor, but ask yourself – what could be going on that he doesn’t want anyone to see?”
He added, “I think it’s nonsense when people say phones should be private.” “You can be whoever you want to be online (trust me, I’d know), and you should recognize that your partner may feel insecure about your online activities.”
Smith emphasizes that innocent people should not hide their devices.
“If you have nothing to hide, why should you care?” she wrote. “It means a lot to me that my fiancé was comfortable sharing his passcode.”
And while a man “can’t control” whether a woman decides to message him, “he can control her response,” she stressed.
“Take one of my ‘failed’ experiments,” Smith said. “A client asked me to test her husband, and she politely told me she was happily married. When I shared the good news with him, he said he had already shown him the conversation.
“Guys, it’s that simple: Transparency, always.”
You are not in his pictures
“With my pregnant client, it was an immediate red flag that there were no photos of her on her Instagram profile,” warns Smith. “Even if he claims he never posts on social media, you should at least include him in his profile photo.
“Your partner should be proud to show you off,” said the sexpert. “If he isn’t, it indicates a lack of commitment.”
he uses snapchat
Smith is suspicious of anyone using “chat”.
“There is no good reason why anyone over school age should have Snapchat on their phone,” he wrote. “Snapchat – with the USP that it deletes messages after viewing – is an app for cheaters.”
“I’ve only seen adult men use it to send and receive explicit photos,” warns Smith. “Whatever his explanation, if he’s a regular snapper, be very careful.”
Will not show location
“These days, it’s normal for your loved ones to be on location-sharing apps,” Smith said. “One warning I hear often is: ‘My husband’s location always shuts down with no explanation.'”
But pro-pinup isn’t buying it.
“Cheaters will come up with some excuse as to why they don’t want to share their location, but then insist that their girlfriend share their location,” Smith groans. “Which leads me to my next red flag…”
unequal expectations
“Cheaters are jealous people with fragile egos,” he insisted. “That’s almost always the reason they cheat: A woman’s affirmation of love is never enough for them.”
Smith urged women not to fall into the trap of one-sided rules.
“My clients often report that their partner expects them to set unrealistic boundaries with men: distancing themselves from male friends, not even talking to male coworkers,” she told the Daily Mail. “Meanwhile, he’s posting photos of himself in bikinis with attractive people who are ‘just friends.’
He accuses you of cheatingEng
“Does your partner call you ‘crazy’ or claim you are ‘just being insecure’ if you express concerns?” He asked the question. “Does he accuse you of being unfaithful for no apparent reason?
“This gaslighting behavior is not only designed to be abusive,” Smith wrote.[but] It’s also extremely revealing.”
His lesson: He’s “projecting” his cheating guilt onto you.
“In a loving relationship, the response to concerns being raised should be non-shocking and gentle affirmation,” Smith said.
“Think, ‘Oh my God, I would never do that to you,'” encouraged Eyes. “No, ‘Are you crazy? I can’t deal with your insecurities right now.'”
intuition is key
“Women are more emotionally intelligent than men,” Smith said. “But we’re also adept at convincing ourselves that strange behavior must have an innocent explanation—when every bone in our bodies is screaming otherwise.”
Instead of rationalizing a person’s awkwardness, “trust your gut,” Smith stressed.
“Almost all the messages I get are from women saying something doesn’t feel right and sadly they’re usually right,” she revealed. “If in doubt, call him – or hire the services of someone like me!”
emotional distance
“Does your partner appear detached during conversations?” Smith asked. “Has he stopped being praised? “Did he touch you a lot, but now he doesn’t?”
If she says “yes” to any of those questions, the human two-timing detector wants women to be careful.
“This kind of emotional distance is one of the biggest red flags.”
eliminate fraud
Even without Smith’s help, some cyber-savvy detectives are becoming adept at sniffing out the dogs themselves.
Abby Paige, a digital content creator, tampered with Wi-Fi settings earlier this year to catch her partner hanging out with other women on the World Wide Web.
And Liesel, a Gen Z from Missouri, innocently learns the truth about her girlfriend’s infidelity scrolling through social media,
The brunette accidentally exposed her ex’s misdeeds after stumbling upon another woman’s “Get Ready With Me” TikTok clip.
In the video, the other girl was preparing for a hot date at Liesel’s girlfriend’s house.
